I truly love dysfunctional family memoirs. I really do. Jeanette Winterson's Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? fits perfectly into this category. Goodness gracious, let's get to it.
Jeanette Winterson grew up in northern English industrial town with a Pentecostal mother who often locked her out of the house, leaving Jeanette to fare for herself on the front doorstep for hours at a time. Jeanette leaves home at 16 after realizing that she is attracted to another woman. Nine years later she publishes a highly regarded novel that is a fictionalized version of her truth. Almost two decades later she seeks to find her birth family. This is Jeanette's journey to understand herself through her past.
This is a short novel that I knocked out in a weekend day. I fell in love with Jeanette's disarming and heartfelt truth that she lays out for her readers. She spares no pain and no experience as she treats the reader as a cherished friend, sharing her tale over a hot toddy or chamomile tea. Her story is absolutely painful to read even from a distance--to feel that unloved, that uncared for, and that much of a failure to your mother--how could you possibly not break? I cheered for Jeanette as she drove away from the painful existence she was living.
If you are a fan of Jeanette's work, or just dysfunctional family memoirs in general, this is certainly worth a read. If you care about the human condition or love a tale of resilience, this is it. If you just enjoy good books, pick this up.

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